STOP telling her “You’re beautiful!” every day

We all know that you need to make an ongoing effort to keep the romantic flame alive in a relationship, that’s why you tell your woman “You’re beautiful!” on the regular, right? “Open Her” by Karen Brody explains why this quotidian romantic overture falls far short of making your lady feel seen, loved, and desired. The author is sort of like a female Roosh V (a comparison I’m sure she would just love). She tasted the rainbow of masculinity and defines seven masculine archetypes in this book — which isn’t really “red-pilled”, feminist, or anti-feminist. This book and its unique insights on men and women don’t really fit into one of our modern culture war camps. My witty and pretty wife and I read this one together, and share takeaways in this podcast…

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Eye-gazing exercise

Daily validation habit — described in How to Stay Loyal to Your Woman — 6 steps to resilient sexual-spiritual risk mitigation

Laughing at absolutely nothing for no reason

Couples breathwork sessions in the Othership app

Which is featured prominently in Module 7 of my new Tantra course — become a multi-orgasmic Tantric man in 22 days

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Find “your edge”

If you want to take your sex life and lovemaking skills to the next level I also recommend reading The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm, and She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. As I wrote in-depth about in my book, cultivating myself as a tantric man has resulted in the beautiful, harmonious relationship I have with my wife — it’s made a difference for us…