Most sissies I have encountered wear only panties daily to feed their sissyness; to feel feminine.
And to be honest, that is understandable too, as panties are the entry point for most sissies into the sissy lifestyle. It is the fetish which leads one into the sissy culture.
Yes, I called panties a fetish because they are just that, a fetish.
Wearing panties doesn’t necessarily make you a sissy. In fact, panties may be just a gateway drug into being a sissy, but not always.
Unfortunately, due their easy access, concealed wear, as well as common fantasy by almost every other man who doesn’t even identify as a sissy, panties have become just a masturbation device — so you can get off on them — making them just a fetish.
Throughout history, many men, even those who identify themselves as straight, cis, hetero men, have been attracted to women’s panties. It is something about their proximity to the women’s vagina, that makes them such an object of fetish. That’s why women usually keep them hidden and a secret and they are considered so taboo.
Men of all ages have used panties to smell, to taste, to wrap around their cocks to jerk off and to sometimes even wear to rub one out.
Panty Fetish is but just a fetish that is all too common.
For a sissy however, panties mean something different.
Panties are a lot of fun for a sissy to see their clitty just pressed into them, or thongs, that remind you of their presence more with the string shoved up in their pussy area or tight upfront and offer even more emasculation.
Panties are a source of femininity for a sissy. They offer the feeling of emasculation and help sissies feel like they are one step close to being a woman and one step further from being a man. It’s a mental thing more than a physical thing.
Sissies gravitate towards panties first when venturing into the sissy lifestyle for the first time and they do feel very emasculated, very feminine while wearing them too, there’s no doubt there.
But eventually, these panties start becoming a security blanket for sissies. They feel that is enough for them to become a sissy, to feel feminine. They start building big collections of panties and JUST panties.
Panties begin to become the comfort zone for sissies, meaning the sissy knows they are a sissy because they are wearing panties, and starts believing that is enough. They start thinking that panties are enough to make them into a sissy.
It is important for the sissies to understand that only wearing panties limits them with how far they are willing to go into their sissification journey.
As a sissy, if you are only wearing panties, you are seriously missing out of being your true feminine self!
Don’t get me wrong here, its not that panties aren’t important for a sissy! They are and as earlier stated they are the entry point to being a sissy. They hold a big, big role in the emasculation and the sissification process. But being stuck on just wearing panties is not good either and progress needs to happen in terms of clothing for a sissy.
Whats that next step?
Bras.
Bras are significant because they communicate to a sissy that they are really committing themselves to their feminine journey. That they are not just a fetish sissy but a lifestyle sissy.
When wearing panties with a bra or corset, it takes you out of that space of being just into a panty fetish, or just a kink that you enjoy wearing panties and shows that you are taking yourself to the next step, that you embrace your femininity, that you are committed to being a sissy.
Putting on only panties and not a bra is only “half-assing” being a sissy.
Sissies have longed to be feminine, to be a woman. They are always looking at women to see what they can do better to help themselves look more feminine. However, in my experience, most sissies only wants to do what is comfortable and easier for them to do, not what is required for them to do.
For example, a sissy who is not 100% committed to the sissy life, will make excuses to wear panties to go the gym in. Which is very amusing, because they have to change out of panties into some type of male underwear in order to go to the gym, however women, are not changing out of their panties!
And some people might give excuses like, men have have different annuities between their legs, not an innie, etc. No, that’s all just an excuse, because many sissies, who are committed to being a sissy, wear panties to the gym. They just find the right kind of panties to wear. Women going to the gym don’t wear their 30 dollar lace thong from Victoria’s Secret to go the gym to. Women have different panties for almost every occasion out there and they do have panties for gym also. Gym panties are usually like boy shorts or they are briefs and comfortable. So a sissy can also do the same. They just need to think like a woman, be in the feminine mindset all the time and disassociate themselves from anything manly. There’s no way they won’t be able to find a solution to any problem or fear they have.
You don’t have be dressed in the sexiest lingerie every single second. Live as a realistic sissy — life is not a 24x7 fantasy — you can’t live it like a fantasy all the time, no one can!
To be a real sissy, and to be truly feminine, a sissy has to move out of their comfort zone and do what is necessary for them to be more feminine, not what they can do. They will need to be imaginative and creative and find ways to achieve what they truly desire, that is to be a feminine being.
Sissies need to do everything a women does. And everything means living out the days in every situation.
In terms of lingerie, a sissy should always be wearing both panties and a bra. Extra points if they match!
Bras can look amazing and feel amazing and create that bulge on the chest that makes one look and feel feminine.
Bras can, however, be a little intimidating, especially for sissies, which is why sissies gravitate more towards panties and only stick to panties, and don’t explore the world of bras much.
Below we address some of the common issues or fears associated with bras for a sissy.
Bras are definitely not exactly the easiest thing to buy, even for a woman, who can have a total of 10 bras in 4 different sizes and can bounce back in between those sizes. Its not easy finding the right bra even as a woman, so as a sissy trapped in a male body, it’ll be hard finding the right bra and thus they can be intimidating.
Bras can be uncomfortable, especially if they are the wrong size. Bras are tricky and can be temperamental. You can wear a bra that fits a little tight and then 4 hours later its cutting into your sides and just begging to take it off. You are not getting the pleasure you thought you would!
But that's a universal women problem. There are countless memes on the internet about women coming back home and loving that feeling of taking off that bra. Every woman goes through that and finding the right perfect bra feels so satisfying for a woman, because it is an important moment for them. It is an explorative, a hit and trial thing for women too, so why not for a sissy? All it takes is some effort.
When a sissy says that I can’t wear a bra because it clenches or hurts or is uncomfortable or I can’t fill it, its all just excuses. All sissies need to do is learn how to measure themselves properly and then wear the right fitting bra.
They can even get themselves measured from someone professional too if they want, but they are just embarrassed to that. As sissy it is important that they are actually measured for them and actually have some good bras and corsets. How do you think drag queens wear a bra, or transwomen wear bras? They get measured for one from a professional, and you can too, there’s nothing to be ashamed about it.
If you are still too scared — go to YouTube, type in how to measure for a bra and find a video and then do a self measurement. There is absolutely no reason why a sissy should not have a well fitting bra.
Even after getting a bra, there are many different bra styles. Some will be super comfortable, and some will hurt. For some styles you will need to get bigger bra sizes and for some smaller ones. Experimentation, and trial and error will be required until you find that perfect bra that fits. But once you do find that bra, you won’t want to go out without it.
So why to stop at that fear, lets conquer it and find the perfect bra for you, sissy!
Another concern sissies have is that while the panties are and can stay hidden through the thicker pants/jeans trousers they are wearing, bras can show more through the thin fabric of the shirt/t-shirt they are wearing, thus raising suspicion. It is a valid concern, no doubt, but they fail to understand the countless women across the world face the same problem everyday and have devised methods to manage the same. So can you sissy!
How many times do you see a woman with the band to her bra visible under a sweater or a shirt? Is it always so prominent or do you have to actually look for it? There are many types of bras — sports bra, bralettes, non wired etc. which are almost invisible beneath your clothes. If one needs a certain type of bra, they can find it. If you say the bra will show out the shirt, that’s just a sissy not thinking in their true feminine spirit!
If wearing a bralette (no underwire, made of lace and doesn’t really have much of bulk to it) does its job, knowing how it conforms to your body, why does it stop you from wearing it anywhere you go?
If you’re that worried about it then put a bra on and put on an undershirt or a slip or a camisole on top to create another layer. Its not complicated, and most women in conservative areas or cooperative jobs do that.
IF you are still too worried, put on a light jacket or a sweater on top fo your shirt, especially if you live in a colder weather. Then there is definitely no chance of anything showing through.
You just have to think. You have to want it and then figure out how to get it.
While panties are in direct contact with a sissy’s clitty, compressing it, giving that satiny, soft feeling on it, they can be very arousing in nature.
However, there’s not much one can get off on with the bras. There are people who get turned on by bras, but wearing a bra is not going to give that soft feel and quick enjoyment on the clitty that a sissy might enjoy with panties.
On the contrary, bra’s can be uncomfortable and a hindrance, they can feel tight and constrictive around the chest and some bras like a push up bra with forms will obstruct the view to the panties, so they won’t be visible directly, thus relying on having to look in the mirror to see them.
With no breasts, and no forms to fill the cups, bras for sissies can look like empty pockets with no thrill attached to them.
Another reason why some sissies don’t want to wear bras, because they don’t find them arousing enough.
But again, this is what separates a fetish sissy, who is this only for getting off, from a lifestyle sissy, who identify themselves as a sissy and are committed to it. A really sissy is one who is truly committed and serious about their sissification, and that is what every sissy direct their effort on.
Cups feel empty? Get breast forms! Its not a complicated process. One Doesn’t have to buy the full chest forms always, they can get just get the smaller breast forms, and use those. You can even make your own using household items! Buy different sizes of breast forms. Your body can’t hold big tits, its fun to play with them or take cute pics, but get more appropriate forms. Get one set latest.
Bras are quintessential feminine piece of clothing. While male and females both wear underwear, and some male and female underwear can have common tonalities, like some male briefs shaped like female bikinis and some female boy-short shaped like male briefs, bras are something associated only with breasts and females.
Wearing a bra is a sign of true femininity, and if you spot someone wearing one, there is no mistake they identify as a feminine being.
Thus, wearing a bra along with panties is essential for a sissy to be able to truly embrace their femininity and to show their commitment to the sissy lifestyle.
Every sissy should know its important and wear a bra everyday, especially if they are going out.
